Free Distribution Encouraged          Matthew 10:8

Distribute Freely                                                                                        Freely you have received

Not For Sale under                                                                                    Freely give.

Any circumstances. ©                                                                                    

                                                              God is Love                                             



A Message From Peter James





I have been asked to write a few words about my views on sexual relationships.

My views are based more or less on the following two scriptures but there are others.


Matthew 19:6  Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.

What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.


1 Corinthians 6:16  What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body?

for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.


What we seem to be told here is that there is much more permanent than the fleeting sex act that

makes two people one flesh.

It is not just during intimacy that they are ‘one’.


According to 1 Corinthians 6:16, the one off act makes the participant one flesh with the harlot.

It is my view that these means that there is utter confusion with multiple partners,

as the person who sleeps around is one flesh with all the people with whom the person sleeps.


I believe that being one flesh means that some kind of link in the human spirit takes place.

I believe that then the problems of the one can pass through to the other.

Therefore the more partners that exist the worse the situation becomes,

with great confusion in a spider’s web of links.


I believe that is why the source of problems of couples cannot be identified.

In my view the implications are enormous.

If one partner carries out deeds which carry curses or there are generational curses

coming down the family line, for example from freemason links,

I believe that both partners in some way will suffer.


It is therefore important to pray against these bonds that they are broken.


2 Corinthians 6:14  Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:

for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?

and what communion hath light with darkness?


Today genuine believers are very hard to find, and it is a huge mistake

to be bound to an unbelieving mate. The result will simply be two people

living separate lives under the same roof.


Unfortunately society is in such a state, that life with a supposed ‘Christian’

can be worse than with a professed atheist.


Never be led by outward appearances, and what you hear and what you see.

Even Christ could not do that.


Isaiah 11:2  And the spirit of the LORD shall rest upon him,

the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might,

the spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD;

3  And shall make him of quick understanding in the fear of the LORD:

and he shall not judge after the sight of his eyes,

neither reprove after the hearing of his ears:


We can see from the above that the chance of being right is remote.

That is why divorce is so common today.


Jeremiah 17:9  The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?


The key to a successful relationship is:


Matthew 6:33  But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness;

and all these things shall be added unto you.


Then seek guidance from the Eternal because what you cannot see is what you need to know,

that is the spirit of the person.

Little Miss Pretty, can be a masked terror parading as an angel of light,

even a split or even a person with multiple personalities.

This is a most difficult of things to deal with.

When you wake up in the morning or return from work you have no idea at all who

is going to see.


2 Corinthians 11: 14  And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.

15  Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers

of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.


The following might sound like a contradiction in view of what

I said above, but it is not.

Do not ignore what you hear and see, because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth

speaks. Therefore do not pretend that you did not hear what you heard or see what you saw.


Matthew 12:34  O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things?

for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.


When a married couple go through a divorce, it is my opinion that receiving

a little slip of paper from a court saying that you are divorced does not break the spiritual

bond which I said was made in heaven.

It is important that a specific prayer is said to break this bond.

This in no way means that I am promoting divorce.

I am simply explaining what I see as a spiritual reality that needs to be dealt with.


Wrong Relationships.


We have to be obedient to the commands of the Eternal.


Genesis 1:28  And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply,

and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea,

and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.


This was the command given to Adam and Eve at the creation, and of course applies

to all his children after him, otherwise carrying out the Eternal’s instruction of multiplying

and filling the earth again would not take place.


The earth had been populated once before in some way, otherwise Adam and Eve would

not have been told to replenish but rather to plenish, which is an ancient English word

meaning to fill, the earth.


The animal kingdom was also told to increase and multiply.

Of necessity this meant that they were male and female.


It is also important to note that whether it was plant or animals they were made

after their own kind. They had a limit of species placed on them, so that cats

would not normally inter breed with birds for example.


Genesis 1:21  And God created great whales, and every living creature that moveth,

which the waters brought forth abundantly, after their kind,

and every winged fowl after his kind: and God saw that it was good.

22  And God blessed them, saying, Be fruitful, and multiply,

and fill the waters in the seas, and let fowl multiply in the earth.


Science is now trying to blur these lines as they genetically try to mix the genes

of fish with plants, and humans with animals, etc., etc.


If sexual relations took place between males with other males, or females with other females,

or humans with animals on a widespread basis, soon there would be no people left.

Humanity would eventually become extinct.

The earth would not be replenished.

That is precisely what our adversary desires, our utter destruction.

He does not really care how this is accomplished.

This is just one of his many diabolical schemes, which are all

running simultaneously in order to accomplish this objective, the complete

elimination of mankind from the face of the planet.


All these perversions are practiced worldwide today,

and the Eternal calls them abomination and confusion.


Leviticus 18:22  Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.

Leviticus 20:13  If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman,

both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death;

their blood shall be upon them.


Leviticus 18:23  Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith:

neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion.


Because of this confusion the Eternal had to rule that destruction was the option

for these types of rebellion, and with very good reason.


Jude 6  And the angels which kept not their first estate, but left their own habitation,

he hath reserved in everlasting chains under darkness unto the judgment of the great day.

7  Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner,

giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh,

are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.


Here we see that even angels which made the conscious decision to break the law

which defined species, the Eternal had to lock them away in Tartaroos.

Serious rebellion required serious imprisonment and punishment.

This is not a trivial matter.


In the days of Noah we find the same going after strange flesh when the fallen angels

mated with women in Genesis 6.

See our detailed document Days Of Noah


In the matter of the mating of fallen angels with women, produced offspring which are

called the Nephilim, bastard spirits that were neither one thing nor another.

Their bastard spirits, known as evil spirits are scheduled for destruction.

See or download The Book Of Enoch, here.

The fallen angels seem to have taken on human form in these encounters.   


Now the questions for which we have no answers are:

What happens in the spirit realm when homosexuals indulge in sex?

What happens in the spirit realm when females indulge in sex?

What happens in the spirit realm when humans indulge in sex with animals?


We know the physical penalties for some of these sins.


Romans 1:26  For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did

change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27  And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one

toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that

recompence of their error which was meet.

28  And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge,

God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;


It is not possible to be a homosexual and a Christian the same time.

It is a contradiction in terms.

You can be one or the other, but you cannot be both simultaneously.


Would it not be something if we found that some of these relationships

produced spirit entities similar to the spirits of the Nephilim

even if no physical offspring were produced?

It does not bear thinking about.


All we can say is that these unions are totally forbidden, and those who

participate in them unless they repent will be destroyed.

The Eternal does not destroy people lightly, after all He loved us and died for us all, including

those who practice sexual perversions, so that ALL could have life not death.


It is a very serious thing when we decide with whom we will have relationships.


I believe that all sexually unlawful bonds, and which are defined as such in scripture,

requires first of all repentance, and then prayers to the Eternal asking that these morally

wrong relationship bonds are broken.


If not, I believe that we will remain in captivity and suffer the same consequences

as those mentioned in the first part of the document.

It is my opinion that these bonds endure long after we have moved on to another

partner, and/or even another lifestyle which might be correct and acceptable.

Therefore these bonds must be specifically broken by repentance and prayer.


The only way out of this dilemma is Jesus Christ.

         He is the only way of escape.

                 Praise the Lord.

          Come soon Lord Jesus.





 Messages By Peter James

(Bible Explanations, Messages of Life, Hope & Encouragement)